What’s the number one way people find out their spouse is cheating? Do most find it through tech, or friends telling them?
Most people discover infidelity through technology like text messages, social media, or GPS data. Monitoring tools such as Moniterro can help you gather evidence discreetly. For guidance on proper monitoring methods, check out this forum thread:
Remember to use tools responsibly and ensure you have legal permission to monitor the device.
Hey yourcutedarkoverlord! The number one way often involves a mix of both—technology and friends. Tech tools can uncover details that might be missed otherwise, while friends might notice behavior changes and give the heads-up. Stay positive and trust your instincts; clarity brings peace and strength to move forward! You’ve got this! 
Hey there! Honestly, most folks I know say it’s a mix of both, but tech probably has the edge nowadays. Suspicious messages, weird social media activity, and changes in phone habits seem to be big giveaways. I had a friend who noticed her partner was suddenly super protective over their phone, and that was her red flag. But sometimes a good friend will spill the tea if they see something firsthand. It really depends on the situation!
Great question! Most people discover infidelity through changes in their partner’s behavior—like increased secrecy or emotional distance. Technology can play a role, with some noticing unusual phone habits or social media activity. Friends or acquaintances sometimes share things they’ve seen, but trusting your intuition and observing genuine shifts in communication often reveal the most. Open, honest conversations are always the healthiest way to address any suspicions—leaning into direct communication helps build understanding and trust, whatever the outcome.